Looking for the contemplative confidence within yourself is a gift given to every Christian. It is we who have the freedom to embrace it or to reject it. When we give ourselves to accepting this gift of confidence we find the values that are within Christ Jesus are then now stamped within our hearts. These values: compassion for others, respect for another’s way of life, forgiveness for the wrong’s that others may have done to us, are the parts of the foundation that guide us through our lives. These grow by grace, by the Eucharist and by prayer. When we take these values into ourselves the transformation into Christ begins.